This article at WatchingTheNet.com describes how to delay auto-starting virtual machine when the host starts, as well as how to set the startup order using VMware Server.
Downloads Fully Active
The download page has (finally) been updated. All of the utilities are back. Enjoy!
Purchasing A Windows Laptop, Or Desktop
I get asked on a fairly regular basis what I would recommend, specification wise, on an inexpensive laptop computer. I thought I would note my general recommendations here.